Choosing clothing for a wedding is not easy. If you haven’t been to many, you might not know a lot about suitable attire. The formality has surely evolved if you’ve been to a lot of events. You probably don’t want to wear the same clothing to each one, even if it hasn’t.
Before you start panicking, looking through your closet, or making plans to go shopping, read this useful advice. If you need an explanation of the most common dress codes or simply some outfit inspiration, you’ve come to the right spot.
We spoke with etiquette expert Suzanne Pollak to review the rules and get some advice on what to wear. Additionally, bridal, menswear, and womenswear business owner Alexis Corry was consulted. Together, they explain the jargon you’ll undoubtedly need to be familiar with and offer advice on what to wear to a wedding.
In the sections that follow, learn what the terms white tie, black tie, casual, and more mean in regard to weddings and guest clothing. However, bear in mind that not all of it is. The right attire for every event varies depending on a variety of circumstances, including the venue, time of day, and season, though these recommendations are a great place to start.
While it is possible to consult an expert (such as a clothing merchant) for help, we suggest doing so whenever possible. Some couples provide comprehensive information on their wedding websites or in their invitations. If your partner hasn’t clarified, it is always preferable to ask them straight.
White Tie.
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White tie is as formal as it gets, although it’s not widespread in contemporary culture. If you are asked to an event of this type, it is imperative that you dress the part.
Men must wear a black tailcoat, a white vest, a formal white shirt, a white bowtie, and, in Corry’s words, “white gloves if you’re feeling fancy.” Dress your feet in black pumps (a.k.a. opera shoes).
Although there are varying opinions, it is generally safest for women to wear long, formal clothing. However, Pollak advises taking into account the size of your dress because large, poufy dresses may be unpleasant to sit in. If possible, avoid wearing heels that restrict your movement. Wearing something shorter is preferable to bumbling around all day.
Black Tie.
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Here, it’s best to wear dining attire. A dark tuxedo, a white dress shirt, a matching bow tie, a cummerbund, and suspenders are typically required, according to Corry (if desired). It works great with oxfords and other dress shoes.
Women can pick between an elegant cocktail dress and a lengthy gown. Again, heels are recommended.
Black Tie Optional (Formal).
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If in doubt, dress in black tie, but you are also welcome to wear something a little more laid back. According to Corry, men can wear a black suit instead of a tuxedo and a regular tie instead of a bow tie.
According to Corry, a chic cocktail dress is perfect for women. Dressy separates are also suitable. Somewhat more entertaining than shoes.
Creative Black Tie.
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Despite Corry and Pollak’s claims that they hardly ever observe this dress code, below are some guidelines.
According to Pollak, it implies to have fun for a male. This can be achieved by dressing in bold ties, cufflinks, or even socks, as well as by donning menswear (think: a jacket in a unique material or color).
The idea is the same for women. Corry advises not to take yourself too seriously and to have fun with your outfit. Statement jewellery, shoes, and handbags are all suitable accessories (though Pollak emphasises keeping comfort in mind).
Semiformal (Cocktail).
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According to Corry, the name makes it obvious to call. Wedding attire that falls between between the formal and informal categories is called semiformal. She believed that ties may be worn with or without a man’s suit.
According to Pollak, who agrees that women have a wide range of clothing alternatives, semiformal is “very fancy.” Cocktail dresses or dressy attire are typically acceptable.
Casual.
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Casual attire can vary significantly depending on a number of variables, including the setting and time of day. At its most formal, it calls for a sport coat. Most people look excellent in loose-fitting jeans, sweaters, and button-down shirts (chinos, khakis, etc.). The least formal outfit for men is polos and shorts, which is acceptable. Shoes are less constricting in every situation (boat shoes may be worn, for example).
Women can wear a “less-dressy dress,” claims Pollak (think: a sundress). Because they are more casual shoes, flats or sandals are appropriate for this situation.
Traditional.
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In some situations, you could be expected to dress in a way that respects the traditions of a particular culture. For instance, a couple planning an Indian wedding may urge the female guests to wear saris. Do your homework, seek assistance if needed, and always dress respectfully in these situations.
Custom.
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Anything is possible in the current era. Several couples have requested that their guests wear attire that complements the colour schemes they specified in their wedding invitations. For their attendees’ outfits, other people have made Pinterest boards. “Our wedding dress code was upscale-casual, and we wanted our guests to be inspired by the Tuscan surroundings for their outfits,” adds Corry, who is shown above at her wedding in Italy. Most of her visitors showed up dressed in similar subdued hues.
In other situations, requests may be made for “festive” clothes (clothing that follows a specific theme) or “beach chic” attire (clothing that is elegant enough for a wedding yet appropriate for a sandy surroundings). Accept imaginative directions and, if necessary, look for more information.
Mystery.
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There are no indications everywhere advising what to wear? If the pair isn’t forthcoming with information, you have a few further options. On the basis of the event’s circumstances, you can plan your attire (the venue, the weather, etc.). You could also ask other guests about their outfit. It would be ideal if you knew someone who was going to be in the wedding party because their choice of clothing might have given you some pointers.
